A wedding is a wedding. The invitations that open one should feel as personal, as considered, and as beautiful as any other couple's. At Paperlust, we have been printing same-sex wedding invitations since we opened in 2014, and you can explore the full range in our Wedding Invitations to find a design that reflects your story
Here is what that actually looks like in practice.
Any Design, Any Couple
Our collection of 500-plus designs was created by independent artists, not built around assumptions about who is getting married. There are no designs that are "for straight couples" and others that are "for gay couples." A romantic floral design, a bold geometric layout, a delicate watercolor suite, a minimalist typographic card: all of them work for Mr and Mr, Mrs and Mrs, Partner and Partner, or any names at all.
When you use the on-site customization tool, you change the names and wording to reflect your relationship exactly as you choose. The design adapts to you. You do not adapt to the design.
Wording Options
This is one area where same-sex couples sometimes have more deliberate choices to make. The traditional "Mr and Mrs" framing simply does not fit every couple, and that is a creative opportunity, not a problem.
Common wording approaches:
Mr and Mr: clean, formal, traditional in structure. Works beautifully with classic typographic designs.
Mrs and Mrs: elegant and direct. The same structural approach as traditional wording, adapted.
Partner and Partner: inclusive and flexible. Works for any gender identity and reads as intentional rather than generic.
Names only: simply "Alex and Jordan invite you to celebrate their marriage." No titles, no gendered language. Modern, clean, and increasingly popular among couples of any orientation.
Custom phrasing: if you have a specific phrase, a line from your vows, or a non-traditional structure you prefer, the design team can incorporate it. Two rounds of edits are included with every order, and customization extends to wording across all cards in your suite.
Design Directions
The same breadth of aesthetic that exists for all wedding invitations is available here. A few directions that tend to resonate with same-sex couples, based on what we see most often:
Modern minimalist: clean typography, generous white space, a single elegant motif. This approach lets the names and wording do the talking. Works particularly well for couples who want an invitation that feels curated and intentional.
Bold and maximalist: rich color, layered pattern, dramatic composition. For couples who want their invitation to make a statement before the ceremony even starts. Statement-making design that guests will keep.
Romantic and soft: watercolor illustrations, botanical florals, hand-lettered scripts. For couples drawn to warmth and beauty over graphic impact. The most popular aesthetic category in our collection overall, and for good reason.
Earthy and organic: natural textures, muted tones, botanical illustration, raw-edged design elements. For couples with an outdoor, sustainable, or nature-connected wedding vision.
If your palette leans toward softer tones, designs like Dusty Blue Wedding Invitations can create a calm, elegant foundation that works across many styles.
What Is Customizable
Everything. The standard customization tool covers text, colors, and font choices. Through the design team (available for tweaks beyond the tool), you can also adjust:
- Layout and text placement
- Illustration details (removing, adding, or adjusting decorative elements)
- Color palette to match your wedding colors exactly
- Paper stock, print method, size, and envelope options
If an existing design is close but not quite right, brief the team on what you need. If nothing in the collection fits, Custom Wedding Invitations allow you to create something entirely bespoke.
A Note on Our History
Paperlust launched in 2014, the same year same-sex marriage was legal in several US states and was progressing through legislative processes around the world. We have been printing same-sex wedding invitations since day one. Not as a special category, as something that required a separate collection or special acknowledgment, but simply as weddings. Because that is what they are.
Our 100% happiness guarantee applies to every order, and our live chat support team can answer questions about design customization, wording options, or anything else about your order.
Ordering
Browse the collection, choose a design that fits your aesthetic, and customize using the on-site tool. For wording customization beyond what the tool allows, add a note to your order and a designer will make the adjustments. A proof is sent before anything prints. Two rounds of edits are included.
New customers receive $20 off on sign-up. Orders of three or more card types qualify for a 15% discount. DHL express shipping is free on orders over $350 USD.
FAQ
Not a separate collection, because we do not think one is needed. Every design in our collection is fully customizable for any couple. You change the names and wording, and the design works. We have been printing same-sex wedding invitations since 2014.
Yes. The wording on every invitation is fully customizable. Mr and Mr, Mrs and Mrs, Partner and Partner, names only, or any phrasing you prefer. If the customization tool does not accommodate it directly, a designer will make the change as part of your included edits.
In many cases, yes. Illustration-led designs can often be adjusted through the design team. Submit a note with your order explaining what you would like changed, and the team will assess what is possible and confirm before going to print.
Yes. If nothing in the existing collection suits you, the custom design service creates something from scratch. Submit a brief with your vision, colors, aesthetic references, and any specific requirements, and the team will design something original.
Digital print, foil stamping, and letterpress are all available. The right choice depends on your design and aesthetic. Order the $5 sample pack to see print methods in person before deciding.
For designs that benefit from metallic detail, Foil Wedding Invitations add a premium finish that enhances typography and decorative elements.
For more traditional or richly detailed styles, Gold Wedding Invitations remain a timeless choice that aligns beautifully with classic aesthetics.
Yes. The 100% happiness guarantee applies to all orders: if you are not satisfied with your printed invitations, you receive a free reprint or a full refund.
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