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Minimal - Thank You

Minimal
Thank You Cards

by Amelia S.
Minimal - Thank You
Digital Printing
Watercolour - Thank You Cards

Watercolour
Thank You Cards

by Dika M.
Watercolour - Thank You Cards
Watercolour - Thank You Cards
Watercolour - Thank You Cards
Letterpress & Digital
Digital Printing
Blue Floral  - Thank You Card

Blue Floral
Thank You Cards

by Allison L.
Blue Floral  - Thank You Card
Blue Floral  - Thank You Card
Digital Printing
Delilah - Thank You

Delilah
Thank You Cards

by Shab M.
Delilah - Thank You
Foil Stamped
Letterpress
Real Foil
Metallic
Gold Foil Frame - Thank You

Gold Foil Frame
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Gold Foil Frame - Thank You
Letterpress & Digital
Digital Printing
Spring - Thank You Cards

Spring
Thank You Cards

by Joyce W.
Spring - Thank You Cards
Digital Printing
Floral Crown Georgia - Thank You

Floral Crown Georgia
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Floral Crown Georgia - Thank You
Digital Printing
Australian Native Colour In - Thank You Cards

Australian Native Colour In
Thank You Cards

by Tameka W.
Australian Native Colour In - Thank You Cards
Digital Printing
Sleek border - Thank You

Sleek border
Thank You Cards

by Nicole C.
Sleek border - Thank You
Metallic
Real Foil
Swan Frame - Thank You

Swan Frame
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Swan Frame - Thank You
Real Foil
Digital Printing
Lavender Leaves - Thank You

Lavender Leaves
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Lavender Leaves - Thank You
Digital Printing
Floral Circle Invitation Set - Thank You

Floral Circle Invitation Set
Thank You Cards

by Brynie L.
Floral Circle Invitation Set - Thank You
Digital Printing
Letterpress
Pencil Floral Crown - Thank You

Pencil Floral Crown
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Pencil Floral Crown - Thank You
Metallic
Real Foil
Tanzanite - Thank You

Tanzanite
Thank You Cards

by Inggrid H.
Tanzanite - Thank You
Digital Printing
Letterpress
Lines - Thank You Card

Lines
Thank You Cards

by Dika M.
Lines - Thank You Card
Lines - Thank You Card
Lines - Thank You Card
Digital Printing
Mira - Thank You

Mira
Thank You Cards

by Shab M.
Mira - Thank You
Letterpress
The Letters - Thank You

The Letters
Thank You Cards

by Yunita Y.
The Letters - Thank You
Digital Printing
Forest Walk - Thank You

Forest Walk
Thank You Cards

by Amber B.
Forest Walk - Thank You
Real Foil
Love Lines - Thank You

Love Lines
Thank You Cards

by Josephine V.
Love Lines - Thank You
Digital Printing
Letterpress & Digital
Eucalyptus - Thank You

Eucalyptus
Thank You Cards

by Jamie L.
Eucalyptus - Thank You
Letterpress
Digital Printing
Kaleidoskop - Thank You Cards

Kaleidoskop
Thank You Cards

by Stefan A.
Kaleidoskop - Thank You Cards
Kaleidoskop - Thank You Cards
Kaleidoskop - Thank You Cards
Kaleidoskop - Thank You Cards
Metallic
Real Foil
Be Our Guest - Thank You

Be Our Guest
Thank You Cards

by Jacqueline Q.
Be Our Guest - Thank You
Digital Printing
Clair de Lune - Thank You

Clair de Lune
Thank You Cards

by Stella M.
Clair de Lune - Thank You
Clair de Lune - Thank You
Digital Printing
Linear - Thank You

Linear
Thank You Cards

by Jamie L.
Linear - Thank You
Digital Printing
Colour Stock + Foil
Foil of dreams - Thank You Cards

Foil of dreams
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Foil of dreams - Thank You Cards
Foil of dreams - Thank You Cards
Foil of dreams - Thank You Cards
Real Foil
Garden Estate - Thank You

Garden Estate
Thank You Cards

by Haley J.
Garden Estate - Thank You
Digital Printing
Forest Walk - Thank You

Forest Walk
Thank You Cards

by Amber B.
Forest Walk - Thank You
White Ink
Black and White - Thank You

Black and White
Thank You Cards

by Amelia S.
Black and White - Thank You
Real Foil
Minimalist Spot - Thank You Card

Minimalist Spot
Thank You Cards

by Haley J.
Minimalist Spot - Thank You Card
Digital Printing
Real Foil
Metallic
Monochrome Floral - Thank You Cards

Monochrome Floral
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Monochrome Floral - Thank You Cards
Monochrome Floral - Thank You Cards
Monochrome Floral - Thank You Cards
Digital Printing
Print On Wood
Rustic - Thank You Cards

Rustic
Thank You Cards

by Dika M.
Rustic - Thank You Cards
Letterpress
Foil
Letterpress
Real Foil
Regal Wreath - Thank You Cards

Regal Wreath
Thank You Cards

by James B.
Regal Wreath - Thank You Cards
Digital Printing
Luna - Thank You

Luna
Thank You Cards

by Shab M.
Luna - Thank You
Digital Printing
Paint Strokes - Thank You Card

Paint Strokes
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Paint Strokes - Thank You Card
Digital Printing
Neapolitan Icecream - Thank You Cards

Neapolitan Icecream
Thank You Cards

by Inggrid H.
Neapolitan Icecream - Thank You Cards
Neapolitan Icecream - Thank You Cards
Neapolitan Icecream - Thank You Cards
Neapolitan Icecream - Thank You Cards
Letterpress
Digital Printing
Rustic Gardens - Thank You Cards

Rustic Gardens
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Rustic Gardens - Thank You Cards
Digital Printing
Blue Contour - Thank You

Blue Contour
Thank You Cards

by Jamie L.
Blue Contour - Thank You
Digital Printing
Modern Mode - Thank You

Modern Mode
Thank You Cards

by Shab M.
Modern Mode - Thank You
Metallic
Real Foil
Raised Foil
Golden Native - Thank You Cards

Golden Native
Thank You Cards

by James B.
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Digital Printing
Garden Window - Thank You

Garden Window
Thank You Cards

by Amber B.
Garden Window - Thank You
Digital Printing
Melaleuca - Thank You

Melaleuca
Thank You Cards

by Amber B.
Melaleuca - Thank You
Digital Printing
Peacock Blue - Thank You

Peacock Blue
Thank You Cards

by Stella M.
Peacock Blue - Thank You
Digital Printing
Spring Bouquet - Thank You

Spring Bouquet
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Spring Bouquet - Thank You
Digital Printing
Tropical Camo - Thank You

Tropical Camo
Thank You Cards

by Demie L.
Tropical Camo - Thank You
Digital Printing
Metallic
Spring - Thank You Card

Spring
Thank You Cards

by Dika M.
Spring - Thank You Card
Spring - Thank You Card
Spring - Thank You Card
Digital Printing
Sweet Marble - Thank You Cards

Sweet Marble
Thank You Cards

by Inggrid H.
Sweet Marble - Thank You Cards
Sweet Marble - Thank You Cards
Sweet Marble - Thank You Cards
Sweet Marble - Thank You Cards
Letterpress & Digital
Digital Printing
Love Me Tender - Thank You Card

Love Me Tender
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Love Me Tender - Thank You Card
Love Me Tender - Thank You Card
Love Me Tender - Thank You Card
Digital Printing
Raised Foil
Peacock - Thank You Cards

Peacock
Thank You Cards

by Patrizia T.
Peacock - Thank You Cards
Digital Printing
Diamond Branch - Thank You

Diamond Branch
Thank You Cards

by Kaydi B.
Diamond Branch - Thank You
Digital Printing
Eucalyptus Estate - Thank You

Eucalyptus Estate
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Eucalyptus Estate - Thank You
Digital Printing
Letterpress & Digital
Blank Space - Thank You

Blank Space
Thank You Cards

by Abigail P.
Blank Space - Thank You
Real Foil
Rose Et Gris - Thank You

Rose Et Gris
Thank You Cards

by Jamie L.
Rose Et Gris - Thank You
Colour Stock + Foil
White Ink
Simplicity - Thank You Cards

Simplicity
Thank You Cards

by Jacqueline Q.
Simplicity - Thank You Cards
Simplicity - Thank You Cards
Simplicity - Thank You Cards
Simplicity - Thank You Cards
Simplicity - Thank You Cards
Digital Printing
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards

Pastel Pantone
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards

Thank You Cards | Wedding Thank You Cards

(266 items)
Minimal - Thank You
Amelia S.
Digital Printing

Minimal
Thank You Cards

by Amelia S.
Minimal - Thank You
Watercolour - Thank You Cards
Dika M.
Digital Printing

Watercolour
Thank You Cards

by Dika M.
Watercolour - Thank You Cards
Watercolour - Thank You Cards
Watercolour - Thank You Cards
Blue Floral  - Thank You Card
Allison L.
Letterpress & Digital
Digital Printing

Blue Floral
Thank You Cards

by Allison L.
Blue Floral  - Thank You Card
Blue Floral  - Thank You Card
Delilah - Thank You
Shab M.
Digital Printing

Delilah
Thank You Cards

by Shab M.
Delilah - Thank You
Gold Foil Frame - Thank You
Joy
Foil Stamped
Letterpress
Real Foil
Metallic

Gold Foil Frame
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Gold Foil Frame - Thank You
New!
Spring - Thank You Cards
Joyce W.
Letterpress & Digital
Digital Printing

Spring
Thank You Cards

by Joyce W.
Spring - Thank You Cards
Floral Crown Georgia - Thank You
Joy
Digital Printing

Floral Crown Georgia
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Floral Crown Georgia - Thank You
Australian Native Colour In - Thank You Cards
Tameka W.
Digital Printing

Australian Native Colour In
Thank You Cards

by Tameka W.
Australian Native Colour In - Thank You Cards
Sleek border - Thank You
Nicole C.
Digital Printing

Sleek border
Thank You Cards

by Nicole C.
Sleek border - Thank You
Swan Frame - Thank You
Joy
Metallic
Real Foil

Swan Frame
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Swan Frame - Thank You
New!
Lavender Leaves - Thank You
Joy
Real Foil
Digital Printing

Lavender Leaves
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Lavender Leaves - Thank You
Floral Circle Invitation Set - Thank You
Brynie L.
Digital Printing

Floral Circle Invitation Set
Thank You Cards

by Brynie L.
Floral Circle Invitation Set - Thank You
Pencil Floral Crown - Thank You
Joy
Digital Printing
Letterpress

Pencil Floral Crown
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Pencil Floral Crown - Thank You
Tanzanite - Thank You
Inggrid H.
Metallic
Real Foil

Tanzanite
Thank You Cards

by Inggrid H.
Tanzanite - Thank You
New!
Lines - Thank You Card
Dika M.
Digital Printing
Letterpress

Lines
Thank You Cards

by Dika M.
Lines - Thank You Card
Lines - Thank You Card
Lines - Thank You Card
Mira - Thank You
Shab M.
Digital Printing

Mira
Thank You Cards

by Shab M.
Mira - Thank You
The Letters - Thank You
Yunita Y.
Letterpress

The Letters
Thank You Cards

by Yunita Y.
The Letters - Thank You
New!
Forest Walk - Thank You
Amber B.
Digital Printing

Forest Walk
Thank You Cards

by Amber B.
Forest Walk - Thank You
Love Lines - Thank You
Josephine V.
Real Foil

Love Lines
Thank You Cards

by Josephine V.
Love Lines - Thank You
Eucalyptus - Thank You
Jamie L.
Digital Printing
Letterpress & Digital

Eucalyptus
Thank You Cards

by Jamie L.
Eucalyptus - Thank You
Kaleidoskop - Thank You Cards
Stefan A.
Letterpress
Digital Printing

Kaleidoskop
Thank You Cards

by Stefan A.
Kaleidoskop - Thank You Cards
Kaleidoskop - Thank You Cards
Kaleidoskop - Thank You Cards
Kaleidoskop - Thank You Cards
Be Our Guest - Thank You
Jacqueline Q.
Metallic
Real Foil

Be Our Guest
Thank You Cards

by Jacqueline Q.
Be Our Guest - Thank You
Clair de Lune - Thank You
Stella M.
Digital Printing

Clair de Lune
Thank You Cards

by Stella M.
Clair de Lune - Thank You
Clair de Lune - Thank You
Linear - Thank You
Jamie L.
Digital Printing

Linear
Thank You Cards

by Jamie L.
Linear - Thank You
Foil of dreams - Thank You Cards
Phabo R.
Digital Printing
Colour Stock + Foil

Foil of dreams
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Foil of dreams - Thank You Cards
Foil of dreams - Thank You Cards
Foil of dreams - Thank You Cards
Garden Estate - Thank You
Haley J.
Real Foil

Garden Estate
Thank You Cards

by Haley J.
Garden Estate - Thank You
Forest Walk - Thank You
Amber B.
Digital Printing

Forest Walk
Thank You Cards

by Amber B.
Forest Walk - Thank You
Black and White - Thank You
Amelia S.
White Ink

Black and White
Thank You Cards

by Amelia S.
Black and White - Thank You
Minimalist Spot - Thank You Card
Haley J.
Real Foil

Minimalist Spot
Thank You Cards

by Haley J.
Minimalist Spot - Thank You Card
Monochrome Floral - Thank You Cards
Phabo R.
Digital Printing
Real Foil
Metallic

Monochrome Floral
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Monochrome Floral - Thank You Cards
Monochrome Floral - Thank You Cards
Monochrome Floral - Thank You Cards
Rustic - Thank You Cards
Dika M.
Digital Printing
Print On Wood

Rustic
Thank You Cards

by Dika M.
Rustic - Thank You Cards
Regal Wreath - Thank You Cards
James B.
Letterpress
Foil
Letterpress
Real Foil

Regal Wreath
Thank You Cards

by James B.
Regal Wreath - Thank You Cards
Luna - Thank You
Shab M.
Digital Printing

Luna
Thank You Cards

by Shab M.
Luna - Thank You
Paint Strokes - Thank You Card
Phabo R.
Digital Printing

Paint Strokes
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Paint Strokes - Thank You Card
Neapolitan Icecream - Thank You Cards
Inggrid H.
Digital Printing

Neapolitan Icecream
Thank You Cards

by Inggrid H.
Neapolitan Icecream - Thank You Cards
Neapolitan Icecream - Thank You Cards
Neapolitan Icecream - Thank You Cards
Neapolitan Icecream - Thank You Cards
Rustic Gardens - Thank You Cards
Phabo R.
Letterpress
Digital Printing

Rustic Gardens
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Rustic Gardens - Thank You Cards
Blue Contour - Thank You
Jamie L.
Digital Printing

Blue Contour
Thank You Cards

by Jamie L.
Blue Contour - Thank You
Modern Mode - Thank You
Shab M.
Digital Printing

Modern Mode
Thank You Cards

by Shab M.
Modern Mode - Thank You
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
James B.
Metallic
Real Foil
Raised Foil

Golden Native
Thank You Cards

by James B.
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Golden Native - Thank You Cards
Garden Window - Thank You
Amber B.
Digital Printing

Garden Window
Thank You Cards

by Amber B.
Garden Window - Thank You
Melaleuca - Thank You
Amber B.
Digital Printing

Melaleuca
Thank You Cards

by Amber B.
Melaleuca - Thank You
Peacock Blue - Thank You
Stella M.
Digital Printing

Peacock Blue
Thank You Cards

by Stella M.
Peacock Blue - Thank You
Spring Bouquet - Thank You
Joy
Digital Printing

Spring Bouquet
Thank You Cards

by Joy
Spring Bouquet - Thank You
Tropical Camo - Thank You
Demie L.
Digital Printing

Tropical Camo
Thank You Cards

by Demie L.
Tropical Camo - Thank You
Spring - Thank You Card
Dika M.
Digital Printing
Metallic

Spring
Thank You Cards

by Dika M.
Spring - Thank You Card
Spring - Thank You Card
Spring - Thank You Card
Sweet Marble - Thank You Cards
Inggrid H.
Digital Printing

Sweet Marble
Thank You Cards

by Inggrid H.
Sweet Marble - Thank You Cards
Sweet Marble - Thank You Cards
Sweet Marble - Thank You Cards
Sweet Marble - Thank You Cards
Love Me Tender - Thank You Card
Phabo R.
Letterpress & Digital
Digital Printing

Love Me Tender
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Love Me Tender - Thank You Card
Love Me Tender - Thank You Card
Love Me Tender - Thank You Card
Peacock - Thank You Cards
Patrizia T.
Digital Printing
Raised Foil

Peacock
Thank You Cards

by Patrizia T.
Peacock - Thank You Cards
Diamond Branch - Thank You
Kaydi B.
Digital Printing

Diamond Branch
Thank You Cards

by Kaydi B.
Diamond Branch - Thank You
Eucalyptus Estate - Thank You
Phabo R.
Digital Printing

Eucalyptus Estate
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Eucalyptus Estate - Thank You
Blank Space - Thank You
Abigail P.
Digital Printing
Letterpress & Digital

Blank Space
Thank You Cards

by Abigail P.
Blank Space - Thank You
Rose Et Gris - Thank You
Jamie L.
Real Foil

Rose Et Gris
Thank You Cards

by Jamie L.
Rose Et Gris - Thank You
Simplicity - Thank You Cards
Jacqueline Q.
Colour Stock + Foil
White Ink

Simplicity
Thank You Cards

by Jacqueline Q.
Simplicity - Thank You Cards
Simplicity - Thank You Cards
Simplicity - Thank You Cards
Simplicity - Thank You Cards
Simplicity - Thank You Cards
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards
Phabo R.
Digital Printing

Pastel Pantone
Thank You Cards

by Phabo R.
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards
Pastel Pantone - Thank You Cards

Wedding Thank You Cards | Thank You Card Notes for all Occasions

Things you need for sending thank you cards:

  • Pretty paper products – Whether you choose matching stationery, DIY thank you cards, or just find something new that makes you smile, make sure you love the paper you’re working with! It will make writing the notes a treat. And don’t forget about envelopes! They may come with the cards you’ve chosen, but it’s best to check this early on. Remember that envelopes don’t have to be boring, but can be as stylish as the cards within.

  • That perfect pen – There’s nothing worse than trying to write a lot with a scratchy pen that blotches ink across your page, stops working at inconvenient moments or writes with an inconsistent colour. Get to your local stationery store and try the pens until you find "The One". Stock up on a few of them so you always have one on hand.

  • Details, details, details! – You will need a complete list of guests who attended your event, as well as anybody else who assisted in any way, made a phone call, sent a card or a gift, or anything else that should be acknowledged. You will need the addresses of all these people, as well as notes on what you are thanking them for! When you’re planning ahead for this stage, remember to make sure these are noted down as you open gifts, and remember to keep the list of contact details you used to address your invitations.

 

Thank you card ideas

Everybody loves to receive a thank you note after attending or organising an event, having their effort (and perhaps gift) appreciated. Unfortunately, words can fail even the best writer when faced with dozens — or hundreds! — of personalized thank you cards. Here are some tips and tricks to find the perfect wording and feel for your thank you card messages, whether tailor made or template; for wedding, baby shower or to go with a birthday card.

 

Choosing the right thank you card template

If you’re planning a wedding, chances are your thank you card template decision is an easy one — thank you cards that go with your wedding stationery suite. But if the choice is more flexible, choosing the template that best suits your personality (and event) can take some thought.

TIP: Go with your gut instinct, rather than a well-meaning relatives. Too much choice? Filter templates by theme, style, colour or what’s popular, until you connect with a design. Remember, you have the freedom to adjust fonts, text sizes, positioning and colourways in Paperlust thank you card templates, and can easily further customise existing designs

When it comes to choosing your thank you card designs, you should be sure to consider the style of your other event stationery as well as the style of the event itself. If your save the dates, invitations and menus were all floral, it only makes sense to go with floral thank you cards as well. This consistency tends to happen naturally based on your tastes, but it’s a good idea to give it some thought as well. This doesn’t mean everything has to line up perfectly. Just because you used real foil invites doesn’t mean you necessarily need foil thank you cards, but the styles should still be complementary. 

Of course, the style of the invitations isn’t the only important factor. The style of the event itself matters too. A super casual barbecue event isn’t going to gel with a very formal thank you card, and a cutesy cartoon thank you card can feel out of touch with a black tie occasion. 

  • Some of the most popular thank you card designs include:

  • Hand drawn thank you card designs

  • Floral thank you card designs

  • Country or rustic thank you card designs

  • Watercolour thank you card designs

  • Modern thank you card designs

  • Black and white thank you card designs

At the end of the day though, there’s no limit on creativity and on the range of styles available to choose from. And if nothing’s quite right, there are always tonnes of options for customisation, whether that just means tweaking the colour palette and font choices or having designers create a completely custom design just for you. 

 

Personalised thank you card designs

If custom design is more your style, our design associates can create personalised thank you cards just for you. We will carefully discuss your brief with you, whether you want to personalise ideas from existing designs, include custom artwork or start from scratch. Or using a photo thank you card template is another great way to personalise if you want to order and finalise straight away.

 

Thank you photos

Thank you card photos are one of the most popular choices for thank you cards, no matter what the event, because they allow you to add a memory to the card: a little piece of the day. This is particularly true for weddings: people will be dying to see your wedding photos and photo thank you card designs are perfect for sticking on the fridge or in a frame for years to come. Even if you don’t want to choose photo cards for your thank you card itself, it’s a good idea to at least include a wedding photo in the envelope as well. People who sent well wishes but couldn’t attend the big day will also appreciate the opportunity to feel like they were part of things. 

 

WEDDING THANK YOU CARDS

It is an overwhelming task, writing wedding thank you cards online, trying to make hundreds of notes sound heartfelt and grateful! However, with a little bit of planning and the right tools at hand the process can actually be a fun extension of the excitement of wedding invitation planning. 

 

Why send wedding thank you cards?

No matter how big or small your wedding, a lot of people will have contributed in a lot of different ways to make it happen. It’s only polite to thank these people for their love, support and hard work. This is not just a social nicety either. You will likely be eager to show your gratitude in some small way.

TIP: If possible, have your thank you cards in your hands before the wedding actually happens, as well as all the necessary details of your guests. Keep a running list of people who gave you gifts, helped with the wedding, or otherwise showed you support during this time. Note down what they did or what they gave you so that you can thank them specifically. Writing these sort of details down can feel a little bit awkward, like you’re keeping an account of who was the most generous, but it’s worth pushing past the awkwardness of writing such a list to avoid an even more awkward situation: forgetting to thank somebody for something, or thanking them for the wrong gift!

 

When should you write your wedding thank you notes?

You should get started on your thank you notes as soon after the wedding as possible, as they should ideally be sent out within three months of the big day. If you had a large wedding, that doesn’t leave you a lot of time! It’s best to try to power through some each day, to pace yourself, and make sure you can give attention to each one. You can even begin to write your thank yous as gifts and calls come in before the wedding. With the right supplies, it will feel like a treat to sit down and knock out a few notes! Keep your wedding thank you card messages brief but sincere to make sure everything stays manageable. 

 

Wedding thank you card wording FAQ:

Wedding thank you cards are often a lot more stressful to write than other forms of thank you cards. This is not only because the event is so formal and a lot of etiquette rules apply, but also because you are often writing hundreds of the things, so staying inspired to write good wedding thank you card wording can be tricky.

 

SHOULD I WRITE THANK YOU NOTES ADDRESSED TO BOTH PARTNERS IN A COUPLE OR SHOULD I WRITE INDIVIDUAL NOTES TO EACH PARTNER?

This relies on common sense, but as a general guide you should send thank you cards in the same combination as you sent your invitations. This only changes if there are significant changes in their relationships during that time period: a breakup or a marriage, for example. Usually if people live together or are in a long-term relationship it is best to send joint thank you cards, and if they don’t then you might choose to send separate ones. If you want to send a more heartfelt, personal message to one partner (for example, your bridesmaid/best friend) then you might address one thank you card to the two of them and include a separate, individual note to your friend. Use your own discretion. As long as they both get thanked, it’s fine.

 

DO I NEED TO USE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT WEDDING THANK YOU WORDING FOR EACH GUEST, OR CAN I USE A TEMPLATE IN EVERY CARD?

It’s usually considered mandatory to write individual, personalised messages to each guest: you don’t want friends to see one another’s thank you cards and have a case of deja vu, after all! A template can feel unappreciative, since it might appear that you didn’t actually feel thankful enough for their individual contribution to put that into words. That said, a template that is highly customised for each person might work, as long as you are committed to individualising it properly. In general, though, imperfect thank you cards are much better than no thank you cards! If you’re super busy or you have a condition that makes writing difficult, it’s fine to just do what you can. If that’s the case, consider having a few different templates that you can rotate to keep things from being too similar.

 

HOW DO I GO ABOUT WORDING A THANK YOU CARD FOR SOMETHING BEFORE THE WEDDING?

It’s good to write thank you cards for gifts and assistance you receive before the wedding as they happen, to save on the mountain of work after the big day. The actual ‘thank you’ part will be basically the same as your standard wedding thank you card wording. Then, if you’re writing to someone who is invited to the wedding, you might say either “Can’t wait to have you at the wedding in a few weeks” or “We will miss you at the wedding” if they’re not going to make it. If they weren’t invited, just don’t specify anything in that way. Thank them for their gift or their help and leave it at that.

 

WHAT TRADITIONAL WEDDING THANK YOU CARD ETIQUETTE SHOULD I FOLLOW?

If you’re into following traditional wedding etiquette, you should definitely carry this over to your wedding thank you cards! After all, handwriting a thank you note is about as traditional as it gets. Some traditional etiquette to keep in mind is:

  • Write your notes by hand! This is always good advice, but especially if you’re following the rules of etiquette.

  • Write individual notes for individual gifts: not by item but by occasion. If you received an engagement gift, a kitchen tea gift and a wedding gift, that means three separate notes are required.

  • Use neutral paper - probably white, ivory or cream - and write in blue or black ink.

  • Use formal language, including full names and titles for each guest.

Remember, even though it’s an overwhelming task, it is such a good thing that you have so much to be thankful for and so many people to thank!

Another piece of traditional wedding etiquette you might want to observe is the tradition of wedding thank you gifts for people who were vital to your big day. Your wedding party are the most important people to consider giving wedding thank you gifts to, along with your minister and your parents. There may be other people too, so have a think and see what feels right. 

  

Thank you cards for other events

Whether the event is a birthday, graduation party, or a celebration of life, heartfelt thank you cards are a lovely way to show appreciation for support and generosity. Writing sympathy thank you cards can be an emotional but helpful way to work through grief, recognising the love and support around you. Don’t force or rush the process. If it feels right, go with it. If not, now is not the time to worry about etiquette.

 

Baby shower thank you cards, thank you cards for a baby

Your baby shower is really one big present party, so thank you cards are a necessity. Keeping track of who gave what is tricky when you’re opening everything in front of everyone, so organise for a close friend or relative to sit next to you, writing down everything as you go along.

TIP: Note down the gift on the back of each card as you open it (it looks more friendly than keeping a running spreadsheet!).

When should you write your baby shower thank you cards? Most likely, your baby shower will be only a few weeks before your due date, so don’t delay in writing your thank you notes! Once bub arrives, you will not feel like writing them. And even if you have an iron will, you may not have a spare hand to hold the pen!

 

Engagement thank you cards

Your engagement party is almost a trial run for your wedding. Family and friends gather, bring gifts, and celebrate your love. It’s a great opportunity to practice the logistics of putting together a big party, from catering to booking venues and coordinating set up and pack down. Of course, this extends to the engagement thank you cards too. With everyone coming together to help and celebrate, they definitely deserve to be thanked! Take the opportunity to show how grateful you are and they won’t think twice about getting involved and helping you out with the wedding itself. This also saves you from getting stuck when you write your wedding thank you cards, thinking all the way back to the engagement and trying to remember what people gave you or did to help early on. 

 

Business thank you cards

Relationships are everything in business, and making a habit of recognising the support of other businesses and individuals can go a long way. Ordering a batch of business thank you cards means it’s easy to make a habit of expressing your gratitude and going the extra mile in a really simple and affordable way. Whether you’re thanking staff members, other businesses or clients, a card will always be appreciated and build strong relationships with those around you. Paperlust has a range of corporate thank you cards that are professional looking and perfect for a small, medium or large business, however casual or formal. 

 

Newborn thank you cards

Having a newborn is an event in itself, and brings on tonnes of support from friends and family members in the form of well-wishes, cards, gifts, meals and other things. It’s always best to acknowledge the love and support in writing! Really the only way to do this when you’re juggling a newborn (and potentially other kids too!) is to make sure you’ve got your newborn thank you cards on hand well before the due date so you can simply grab one and jot in a quick message when you need to. Keep stamps and addresses on hand too to make things easy for yourself. Then it’s just a matter of filling them in as soon as you can after someone visits or gives you a gift so you don’t forget about it, or keeping a thorough list to be written later. 

There are also other events you might require thank you cards for, including birthday or party thank you cards, baptism thank you cards, and sympathy thank you cards. 

 

Wording your thank you cards

Think about the involvement and contributions all your guests made to the wedding, baby shower, birthday or other event. When you begin thinking about all the work people put into your day it is overwhelming. Take that gratitude and channel it into your writing!

Keep it simple – you’re going to be writing a lot of these! Best to get to the point and be concise but sincere.

Unlike save the date cards and wedding invitations, your thank you card wording doesn’t need to be uniform or put in any special way. The best thank yous are genuine, personal and from the heart.

Brainstorm ideas for the thank you card notes with your partner, especially for their family and friends. Sign from both of you. It can seem impersonal for people to get a thank you card from you when they only met you for the first time at the wedding.

Now to the nitty-gritty: how do you word the things? It can seem completely overwhelming.

The trick is to ask yourself:

  • Who am I writing to?

  • Did this person attend the event?

  • Did this person play a role in the event?

  • Did this person give a gift or a card?

  • Has this person had another significant role in our lives?

You want to be sure that you acknowledge all these points if they are relevant.

 

Who am I writing the thank you card note to?

It is up to you whether you use formal or informal greetings and terms of address in your thank you cards. It’s usually best to base this on what your relationship is to the person in question. No need to go all formal with your good friends, but best not to be overly familiar with your Dad’s boss.

Be sure not to leave anybody out in your address – mention both names if writing to a couple, and children’s names as well for a family.

If possible, mention the name of any plus-ones who also attended.

Most importantly, check and double-check the spelling of all names! It is the height of rudeness to misspell somebody’s name because you couldn’t be bothered to make sure you had it right. A word of warning: beware of using Facebook to find the name of people you don’t know. I’ve been at weddings where people have been thanked in the wedding program by the silly name they have listed on Facebook to keep their profile hidden from employers! If you aren’t sure of somebody’s name or who they are, always ask someone who knows. This might mean speaking to your partner, parents or in-laws. Again, this extra check can save you from a lot of awkwardness later.

 

Did this person attend the event?

  • Yes

    • Thank them for their time and support. Tell them it meant a lot to you that they came to celebrate with you.

    • Make special mention of any travel or extra effort they had to go to in order to attend.

    • If they looked fabulous on the day or drew attention with their winning dance moves, tell them! If you remember chatting to them at the reception about when they used to babysit you, reference that too. These sorts of specifics will tell them that you noticed their presence individually, not just as part of the group. But don’t grasp at straws. If nothing comes to mind immediately, keep it general.

    • e.g. It was wonderful to have you at our wedding, and we are so grateful for the effort you made to be there! It made our day even more special to have your smiling face beside us (looking gorgeous in that red dress, wow!).

 

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