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Wishing Well & Wedding Wishing Well Cards

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Wishing Well & Wedding Wishing Well Cards

(228 items)

Wishing Well & Wedding Wishing Well Cards

(228 items)
Dancing Daisy - Wishing Well
Inggrid H.
Digital Printing

Dancing Daisy
Wishing Well

by Inggrid H.
Dancing Daisy - Wishing Well
New!
Garden Window - Wishing Well
Amber B.
Digital Printing
Real Foil

Garden Window
Wishing Well

by Amber B.
Garden Window - Wishing Well
Linear - Wishing Well
Jamie L.
Digital Printing

Linear
Wishing Well

by Jamie L.
Linear - Wishing Well
White Garden - Wishing Well
Amelia S.
Digital Printing

White Garden
Wishing Well

by Amelia S.
White Garden - Wishing Well
Eucalyptus - Wishing Well
Jamie L.
Digital Printing
Letterpress & Digital

Eucalyptus
Wishing Well

by Jamie L.
Eucalyptus - Wishing Well
Black and White - Wishing Well
Amelia S.
Digital Printing

Black and White
Wishing Well

by Amelia S.
Black and White - Wishing Well
one tree planted item banner
Rosey - Wishing Well
Shab M.
Digital Printing

Rosey
Wishing Well

by Shab M.
Rosey - Wishing Well
Flowering Gum - Wishing Well
Jarred T.
Digital Printing

Flowering Gum
Wishing Well

by Jarred T.
Flowering Gum - Wishing Well
Nouveau - Wishing Well
Shab M.
Digital Printing

Nouveau
Wishing Well

by Shab M.
Nouveau - Wishing Well
Sarulean - Wishing Well
Sarah M.
Digital Printing
Real Foil

Sarulean
Wishing Well

by Sarah M.
Sarulean - Wishing Well
The King Protea - Wishing Well
Breanna F.
Real Foil

The King Protea
Wishing Well

by Breanna F.
The King Protea - Wishing Well
Adore - Wishing Well
Penelope E.
Digital Printing

Adore
Wishing Well

by Penelope E.
Adore - Wishing Well
Rose et Gris - Wishing Well
Jamie L.
Real Foil
Digital Printing

Rose et Gris
Wishing Well

by Jamie L.
Rose et Gris - Wishing Well
Delilah - Wishing Well
Shab M.
Digital Printing

Delilah
Wishing Well

by Shab M.
Delilah - Wishing Well
Hydrangea - Wishing Well
Stella M.
Digital Printing

Hydrangea
Wishing Well

by Stella M.
Hydrangea - Wishing Well
Melaleuca - Wishing Well
Amber B.
Digital Printing

Melaleuca
Wishing Well

by Amber B.
Melaleuca - Wishing Well
Medinilla - Wishing Well
Shab M.
Digital Printing

Medinilla
Wishing Well

by Shab M.
Medinilla - Wishing Well
Rosey - Wishing Well
Shab M.
Metallic
Real Foil

Rosey
Wishing Well

by Shab M.
Rosey - Wishing Well
Modern Mode - Wishing Well
Shab M.
Digital Printing

Modern Mode
Wishing Well

by Shab M.
Modern Mode - Wishing Well
Delicate Lavender - Wishing Well
Nicole C.
Digital Printing

Delicate Lavender
Wishing Well

by Nicole C.
Delicate Lavender - Wishing Well
Blue Contour - Wishing Well
Jamie L.
Digital Printing

Blue Contour
Wishing Well

by Jamie L.
Blue Contour - Wishing Well
Verde - Wishing Well
Jamie L.
White Ink
Digital Printing

Verde
Wishing Well

by Jamie L.
Verde - Wishing Well
Verde - Wishing Well
Stylistically Green - Wishing Well
Meha G.
Digital Printing
Real Foil

Stylistically Green
Wishing Well

by Meha G.
Stylistically Green - Wishing Well
Charcoal Rustic - Wishing Well
Amelia S.
Digital Printing

Charcoal Rustic
Wishing Well

by Amelia S.
Charcoal Rustic - Wishing Well
Luna - Wishing Well
Shab M.
Digital Printing
Real Foil

Luna
Wishing Well

by Shab M.
Luna - Wishing Well
Burnt Butter Cakes - Wishing Well
Burnt Butter
Digital Printing

Burnt Butter Cakes
Wishing Well

by Burnt Butter
Burnt Butter Cakes - Wishing Well
Good Spring  - Wishing Well
Inggrid H.
Digital Printing

Good Spring
Wishing Well

by Inggrid H.
Good Spring  - Wishing Well
Good Spring  - Wishing Well
Rustic Garden - Wishing Well
Nadine W.
Digital Printing

Rustic Garden
Wishing Well

by Nadine W.
Rustic Garden - Wishing Well
Golden Butterfly - Wishing Well
Stella M.
Real Foil

Golden Butterfly
Wishing Well

by Stella M.
Golden Butterfly - Wishing Well
Olive - Wishing Well
Stella M.
Digital Printing

Olive
Wishing Well

by Stella M.
Olive - Wishing Well
Minimalist Black and White - Wishing Well
Jesse I.
Digital Printing

Minimalist Black and White
Wishing Well

by Jesse I.
Minimalist Black and White - Wishing Well
Garden Estate - Wishing Well
Haley J.
Real Foil

Garden Estate
Wishing Well

by Haley J.
Garden Estate - Wishing Well
Minimalist Black and White - Wishing Well
Jesse I.
Metallic
Real Foil

Minimalist Black and White
Wishing Well

by Jesse I.
Minimalist Black and White - Wishing Well
Leif - Wishing Well
Anna D.
Digital Printing

Leif
Wishing Well

by Anna D.
Leif - Wishing Well
Pastel Script - Wishing Well
Amelia S.
Digital Printing

Pastel Script
Wishing Well

by Amelia S.
Pastel Script - Wishing Well
Minimal - Wishing Well
Amelia S.
Digital Printing

Minimal
Wishing Well

by Amelia S.
Minimal - Wishing Well
On the Day - Wishing Well
Amelia S.
Digital Printing

On the Day
Wishing Well

by Amelia S.
On the Day - Wishing Well
Garden Party - Wishing Well
Verena Ivy J.
Digital Printing
Real Foil
Raised Foil
Metallic

Garden Party
Wishing Well

by Verena Ivy J.
Garden Party - Wishing Well
Garden Party - Wishing Well
Sleek border - Wishing Well
Nicole C.
Digital Printing

Sleek border
Wishing Well

by Nicole C.
Sleek border - Wishing Well
Mod Botanical - Wishing Well
Kaydi B.
Digital Printing

Mod Botanical
Wishing Well

by Kaydi B.
Mod Botanical - Wishing Well
Milieu - Wishing Well
Jamie L.
Real Foil

Milieu
Wishing Well

by Jamie L.
Milieu - Wishing Well
Diamond Love - Wishing Well
Patrizia T.
Real Foil
Digital Printing
Raised Foil

Diamond Love
Wishing Well

by Patrizia T.
Diamond Love - Wishing Well
Tirumana Henna - Wishing Well
Phabo R.
Real Foil

Tirumana Henna
Wishing Well

by Phabo R.
Tirumana Henna - Wishing Well
Flos Paradisi - Wishing Well
Phabo R.
Digital Printing
Real Foil
Metallic

Flos Paradisi
Wishing Well

by Phabo R.
Flos Paradisi - Wishing Well
Flos Paradisi - Wishing Well
A Bouquet - Wishing Well
Inggrid H.
Digital Printing

A Bouquet
Wishing Well

by Inggrid H.
A Bouquet - Wishing Well
Botanical Geo - Wishing Well
Heather P.
Real Foil
Digital Printing

Botanical Geo
Wishing Well

by Heather P.
Botanical Geo - Wishing Well
Botanical Geo - Wishing Well
Australian Native Colour In - Wishing Well
Tameka W.
Digital Printing

Australian Native Colour In
Wishing Well

by Tameka W.
Australian Native Colour In - Wishing Well
Modern Simplicity - Wishing Well
Lisa P.
Real Foil

Modern Simplicity
Wishing Well

by Lisa P.
Modern Simplicity - Wishing Well
Leaf Wreath - Wishing Well
Brynie L.
Digital Printing
Real Foil
Raised Foil

Leaf Wreath
Wishing Well

by Brynie L.
Leaf Wreath - Wishing Well
Forest Walk - Wishing Well
Amber B.
Digital Printing

Forest Walk
Wishing Well

by Amber B.
Forest Walk - Wishing Well
Eucalyptus Estate - Wishing Well
Phabo R.
Real Foil

Eucalyptus Estate
Wishing Well

by Phabo R.
Eucalyptus Estate - Wishing Well
Blank Space - Wishing Well
Abigail P.
Digital Printing
Letterpress & Digital

Blank Space
Wishing Well

by Abigail P.
Blank Space - Wishing Well
Serif Stroke - Wishing Well
Yunita Y.
Digital Printing

Serif Stroke
Wishing Well

by Yunita Y.
Serif Stroke - Wishing Well

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Wishing Well & Wedding Wishing Well

Is it really okay to ask for money or specific gifts?

Traditionally it was considered rude for a bride and groom to indicate any preferences regarding gifts, but times are changing rapidly. In 1976 just 16% of people lived with their spouse before marriage, while the current figure is at 81% and continuing to rise, so most couples today will already have many of the things traditionally given as gifts. Guests don’t want to spend their money on something that the couple already has or something that they may not like, and many people will expect some guidance on this.

Of course, in many cultures giving money was always the norm. At traditional Jewish weddings it’s common to give money in multiples of 18, while at a Hindu or Buddhist wedding money amounts ending in ‘1’ are preferred, usually delivered in a traditional decorative envelope. Traditional Chinese weddings call for cash in a lucky red envelope, at Italian weddings guests fill the bride’s borse with cash, and of course at super traditional Greek weddings guests pin cash to the bride’s dress.

The wedding wishing well, or money tree, emerged as a fun way for guests at weddings that weren’t culturally traditional to give money instead of gifts. To make the couple’s wishes come true, so to speak. Some people take this quite literally and have a small wedding wishing well set up on the gift table to collect envelopes, cash and gift cards. Others will use a basket, suitcase, letterbox or something else entirely. You don’t have to have anywhere specific set aside in this way, of course, but it will help prevent any from going walkabout or slipping behind the table or under the tablecloth.

What is a wishing well card?

The wedding wishing well card is a separate card included in your wedding invitation package, which provides details about arrangements you have made for presents. This is where you can let guests know if you have a wedding registry, a preference for cash, or would prefer donations made to a charity in lieu of gifts. Of course, if you have no specific requests, this card is not necessary.

The wedding wishing well card came about because etiquette says gift details are never to be written on the wedding invitation itself, yet guests wanted to know what the bride and groom would prefer before they spent their hard-earned money on a gift. Instead of fielding questions from hundreds of people individually, it made sense to include this information with the invitation.

 

How do I ask?

There are a few key guidelines to follow when wording your wedding wishing well card:

  • Whatever your preference, make it clear it is an option only. You are providing guests with a suggestion, not making a demand. You may have a registry or prefer cash, but you should be careful to word this in a way that makes clear you’re not expecting anything. Remember, you are requesting your guests’ presence at your wedding: a gift is an extra bonus. Specifying your preference is supposed to make it easier for your guests, not cause problems for them!

  • If requesting cash, indicate what you will put money towards. People like to visualize how you will use their contribution. They don’t want to give you money and have it wasted. You don’t have to go into specifics here, but mention that you will be putting it towards your honeymoon / a house / a dishwasher or anything else. This helps a cash gift feel more tangible and satisfying for the person giving.

  • Be clear and honest. It has been trendy to use cutesy rhymes or poems on the wedding wishing well, largely to combat the awkwardness of asking for money. While there’s nothing wrong with these wedding invitation poems if you like them, don’t feel you have to take this approach. As long as you are polite, don’t fear being direct and honest.

  • If requesting donations to a charity in lieu of gifts it can be nice to indicate why you have chosen that specific charity. Perhaps you lost a loved one to cancer and want your guests to donate to research, or you and your partner both love animals and want to support the RSPCA. Feel free to let your guests know why this cause is important to you!

 

The wedding wishing well - Suggestions of wording

Keep it simple! Feel free to borrow from the following:

For those who wish to bring a gift, we have registered with Myer to make it easy for you to find something we need.

In lieu of gifts, we would appreciate donations to The Cancer Councilin memory of our beloved grandparents.

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for but if you would also like to bring a gift, a contribution towards our honeymoon would be much appreciated.

If you wish to give a gift,we would appreciate any contributions to our savings for our dream home.

We have all the material things we could ever need and ask that a donation be made to those less fortunate in lieu of any gifts. Donations can be made to the Salvation Army, or to any charity of your choice.

We are lucky to already have most things we need for our home. In lieu of gifts, we would love a small contribution to our honeymoon fund so we can have the experience of a lifetime in Bali.

A wishing well will be available to allow guests to contribute towards the purchase of a new washing machine. Practical, but greatly appreciated!

Cassie has worked at World Vision for the past three years and is leaving her job as we move to start our life together. Donations to support the projects she has invested so much time in would be deeply appreciated.

 

Alternatives to a wedding wishing well

If you like surprises or find it distasteful to mention gifts before being directly asked, it is perfectly acceptable to leave this card out of your wedding invitation package. Just make sure you’re prepared to field a lot of questions from guests who are used to being given some guidance on these things! If you go the word-of-mouth route to let people know your preferences, make sure your bridal party and immediate family are well informed of your wishes so they can offer helpful suggestions to guests when they are asked.

Another option is to include details of your gift preferences on your wedding website, and just ensure the link to this is included somewhere in the wedding invitation package. Guests are likely to turn to the website for any information they need and this keeps it out of the official invitation, which honours traditional etiquette.

 

 

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