{"id":13692,"date":"2026-05-17T13:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-17T03:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/blog\/?p=13692"},"modified":"2026-05-13T11:11:16","modified_gmt":"2026-05-13T01:11:16","slug":"order-of-service-wording","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/blog\/order-of-service-wording\/","title":{"rendered":"Order of Service Wording Examples: Complete Templates for Every Ceremony"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>\n#post-13692 .entry-content p,\n#post-13692 .entry-content li { font-size: 20px; line-height: 1.7; margin-bottom: 20px; }\n#post-13692 .entry-content h2 { text-transform: none !important; font-size: 34px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.3; margin-top: 56px; margin-bottom: 16px; }\n#post-13692 .entry-content h3 { text-transform: none !important; font-size: 22px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.3; font-weight: 600; margin-top: 32px; margin-bottom: 12px; }\n#post-13692 .entry-content table { width: 100%; border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 18px; margin: 28px 0; }\n#post-13692 .entry-content th { background: #f8f6f3; padding: 12px 16px; text-align: left; border-bottom: 2px solid #ddd; }\n#post-13692 .entry-content td { padding: 10px 16px; border-bottom: 1px solid #eee; }\n@media (max-width:768px) { #post-13692 table { font-size:14px; } #post-13692 .grid-2col { grid-template-columns: 1fr; } }\n<\/style>\n<div data-canon=\"tldr-v1\" style=\"background:#f8f6f3;border-left:4px solid #c9a96e;padding:24px 28px;margin:32px 0;border-radius:2px;\">\n  <strong style=\"font-size:18px;display:block;margin-bottom:12px;\">At a glance<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul style=\"margin:0;padding-left:20px;\">\n<li>An order of service lists the <strong>ceremony sequence<\/strong> so guests can follow along without confusion.<\/li>\n<li>Standard sections include <strong>processional, welcome, readings, vows, ring exchange, and recessional<\/strong> &#8211; customize freely.<\/li>\n<li>Most programs run <strong>4-8 sections<\/strong>; religious ceremonies typically have more than civil ones.<\/li>\n<li>Wording tone should match your invitation suite: <strong>formal programs use complete sentences; casual programs use single-line labels<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<li>Add a short thank-you note and <strong>in memoriam line<\/strong> if honoring a loved one &#8211; both are warmly received.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p>The order of service is the one piece of wedding stationery that works during the ceremony itself. It guides guests through unfamiliar rituals, helps them follow along with readings, and gives them something to hold when they&#8217;re not quite sure what to do with their hands. Getting the wording right means being clear about sequence while matching the tone of your day &#8211; formal and measured for a church ceremony, warm and minimal for a garden elopement. Below are complete wording templates for every ceremony style, plus section-by-section breakdowns you can mix and match.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;margin:32px 0;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/LilJacquesGeneral-90of218-.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding order of service card, Paperlust\" width=\"720\" height=\"1080\" style=\"max-width:min(100%,720px);height:auto;display:inline-block;border-radius:4px;\" loading=\"lazy\" \/><\/p>\n<div style=\"background:#f8f6f3;border-left:4px solid #c9a96e;padding:20px 24px;margin:32px 0;border-radius:2px;\">\n  <strong style=\"font-size:17px;display:block;margin-bottom:10px;\">Order of service quick-reference<\/strong><\/p>\n<table style=\"width:100%;border-collapse:collapse;font-size:16px;\">\n<tr>\n<th style=\"background:#1a1a1a;color:#fff;padding:10px 14px;text-align:left;\">Ceremony type<\/th>\n<th style=\"background:#1a1a1a;color:#fff;padding:10px 14px;text-align:left;\">Typical sections<\/th>\n<th style=\"background:#1a1a1a;color:#fff;padding:10px 14px;text-align:left;\">Program length<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"background:#f9f9f9;\">\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Civil \/ courthouse<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">4-5<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Half-page or single card<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"background:#fff;\">\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Non-denominational<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">5-7<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Single bi-fold<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"background:#f9f9f9;\">\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Christian (Protestant)<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">7-10<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Bi-fold or 4-page booklet<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"background:#fff;\">\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Catholic<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">10-14<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">8-page booklet (includes Mass)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"background:#f9f9f9;\">\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;\">Jewish<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;\">6-9<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:10px 14px;\">Bi-fold with Hebrew\/English<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Classic Non-Denominational Order of Service Template<\/h2>\n<p>This is the most versatile starting point &#8211; works for outdoor ceremonies, hotel ballrooms, winery weddings, and any venue without a specific religious tradition. Adjust section names to match your ceremony&#8217;s feel.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">The Wedding of<br \/>Emma &amp; James<br \/>October 11, 2025<\/p>\n<p>Order of Service<\/p>\n<p>Prelude Music<br \/>Seating of Guests<br \/>Processional<br \/>Welcome<br \/>Reading &#8211; &#8220;I carry your heart&#8221; by E.E. Cummings<br \/>The Vows<br \/>Exchange of Rings<br \/>Pronouncement<br \/>The First Kiss<br \/>Recessional<\/p>\n<p>Reception to follow<\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">Emma &amp; James<br \/>October 11, 2025<\/p>\n<p>Ceremony Order<\/p>\n<p>Guests are seated<br \/>Wedding party processional<br \/>Bride&#8217;s entrance<br \/>Opening words by officiant<br \/>First reading (Matthew Chen)<br \/>Address<br \/>Exchange of vows<br \/>Ring blessing and exchange<br \/>Unity ceremony<br \/>Closing blessing<br \/>Pronouncement of marriage<br \/>Recessional<\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;margin:32px 0;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Paperlust_Sara-Uduwela_201901_318.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding order of service card, Paperlust\" width=\"720\" height=\"1080\" style=\"max-width:min(100%,720px);height:auto;display:inline-block;border-radius:4px;\" loading=\"lazy\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Formal \/ Black-Tie Order of Service Wording<\/h2>\n<p>Formal ceremonies call for complete sentences in headings rather than shorthand labels. The processional section can name each member of the wedding party. This adds length to the program but guests appreciate the elegance.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">THE MARRIAGE CEREMONY OF<br \/>EMMA ROSE HARTLEY<br \/>AND<br \/>JAMES WILLIAM CHEN<br \/>SATURDAY, THE ELEVENTH OF OCTOBER<br \/>TWO THOUSAND AND TWENTY-FIVE<\/p>\n<p>ORDER OF CEREMONY<\/p>\n<p>Prelude<br \/>Seating of Honored Guests<br \/>Processional of the Wedding Party<br \/>Presentation of the Bride<br \/>Welcome and Opening Prayer<br \/>First Scripture Reading<br \/>Address<br \/>Second Scripture Reading<br \/>Exchange of Vows<br \/>Blessing and Exchange of Rings<br \/>The Unity Candle<br \/>Closing Prayer and Benediction<br \/>Pronouncement of Marriage<br \/>Presentation of Mr. and Mrs. Chen<br \/>Recessional<\/div>\n<h2>Simple and Minimal Order of Service Wording<\/h2>\n<p>Modern couples often prefer a clean, stripped-back program &#8211; a cover card or half-page with just the essential sequence. No subheadings, no explanations. Let the ceremony speak for itself.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">Emma &amp; James<br \/>11.10.25<\/p>\n<p>Processional<br \/>Welcome<br \/>Vows<br \/>Rings<br \/>Kiss<br \/>Recessional<\/div>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">Today<\/p>\n<p>1. Music while you wait<br \/>2. Wedding party walks in<br \/>3. We get married<br \/>4. Drinks<\/p>\n<p>Emma &amp; James &#8211; October 11, 2025<\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">The ceremony<br \/>Emma &amp; James, October 2025<\/p>\n<p>Entrance<br \/>Words<br \/>Vows<br \/>Rings<br \/>The good part<br \/>Reception<\/div>\n<p>Note on humor in minimal programs: the &#8220;4. Drinks&#8221; style works when your wedding has a casual, party vibe. For mixed guest lists (grandparents, formal work colleagues), a slightly warmer middle ground usually lands better.<\/p>\n<h2>Rustic and Boho Order of Service Wording<\/h2>\n<p>Barn and garden ceremonies often use a single large sign or chalkboard instead of individual programs &#8211; but the wording principles are the same. These examples work equally well as printed programs or sign wording.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">Gather &#8217;round, friends<br \/>Emma &amp; James are getting married<br \/>October 11, 2025<\/p>\n<p>The Order of Things<\/p>\n<p>Seat yourself wherever feels right<br \/>The wedding party makes their entrance<br \/>Here comes the bride<br \/>A few kind words from our officiant<br \/>Words of wisdom (Grandma Ruth)<br \/>The big moment &#8211; our vows<br \/>Rings for keeps<br \/>We&#8217;re officially married!<br \/>Let&#8217;s celebrate<\/div>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">Welcome to our meadow<br \/>Emma &amp; James, October 11, 2025<\/p>\n<p>Prelude: Sarah plays guitar<br \/>Everyone arrives and finds a spot<br \/>Wedding party processional<br \/>Emma walks in (try not to cry)<br \/>Words of love from our friend Marcus<br \/>A reading by Dad<br \/>Vows we wrote ourselves<br \/>Exchange of rings<br \/>A kiss for the books<br \/>The Chens walk back down the aisle<\/div>\n<h2>Religious Order of Service Wording<\/h2>\n<h3>Christian \/ Protestant ceremony<\/h3>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">The Marriage of Emma &amp; James<br \/>October 11, 2025 &#8211; First Baptist Church<\/p>\n<p>Prelude Music<br \/>Lighting of Unity Candles<br \/>Seating of Mothers<br \/>Processional<br \/>Opening Prayer<br \/>Hymn: &#8220;Great Is Thy Faithfulness&#8221;<br \/>Scripture Reading: 1 Corinthians 13:4-8<br \/>Address by Pastor Williams<br \/>Declaration of Intent<br \/>Exchange of Vows<br \/>Ring Blessing<br \/>Exchange of Rings<br \/>The Unity Candle Ceremony<br \/>Prayer for the Couple<br \/>Pronouncement of Marriage<br \/>The Kiss<br \/>Benediction<br \/>Recessional<\/p>\n<p>Please join us for a reception following the ceremony<\/p><\/div>\n<h3>Jewish ceremony (Reform)<\/h3>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">The Wedding of Emma &amp; James<br \/>October 11, 2025<\/p>\n<p>Processional<br \/>Kabbalat Panim &#8211; Welcoming the couple under the chuppah<br \/>Opening Blessings<br \/>Kiddushin &#8211; Betrothal ceremony<br \/>First cup of wine<br \/>Exchange of rings<br \/>Ketubah signing (prior to ceremony)<br \/>Reading of the Ketubah<br \/>D&#8217;var Torah &#8211; Address<br \/>The Sheva Brachot &#8211; Seven Blessings<br \/>Second cup of wine<br \/>Breaking of the glass<br \/>Recessional<\/div>\n<h2>Including Wedding Party Members in Your Program<\/h2>\n<p>Most couples add a second section &#8211; after the order of service &#8211; that lists who&#8217;s in the wedding party and what role they play. This is especially appreciated at larger weddings where guests may not know everyone.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">Officiant<br \/>Marcus Rivera &#8211; best friend of the groom<\/p>\n<p>Maid of Honor<br \/>Sophie Hartley &#8211; sister of the bride<\/p>\n<p>Best Man<br \/>Daniel Chen &#8211; brother of the groom<\/p>\n<p>Bridesmaids<br \/>Olivia Park, Rachel Moore, Ava Thompson<\/p>\n<p>Groomsmen<br \/>Noah Kim, Liam Zhang, Ethan Brooks<\/p>\n<p>Flower Girl<br \/>Lily Hartley, age 4<\/p>\n<p>Ring Bearer<br \/>Max Chen, age 6<\/p>\n<p>Readers<br \/>First reading: Ruth Hartley (grandmother of the bride)<br \/>Second reading: Carol Chen (mother of the groom)<\/div>\n<h2>Thank You Note Wording for Programs<\/h2>\n<p>A short thank-you note on the back of the program (or as the final inner page of a booklet) is a meaningful touch. Keep it brief &#8211; three to five sentences.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">Thank you for being here today. Whether you traveled across the country or just across town, your presence means the world to us. We are so grateful for your love and support as we begin this new chapter together. Please enjoy the celebration to follow &#8211; we can&#8217;t wait to party with you.<br \/>With love, Emma &amp; James<\/div>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">We are so thankful you could celebrate with us today. Every person in this room has played a part in bringing us here, and we don&#8217;t take that lightly. Enjoy the food, enjoy the dancing, and please don&#8217;t go home before cake.<br \/>Emma &amp; James<\/div>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">Thank you. That&#8217;s it. Just &#8211; thank you, from the bottom of our hearts, for making today possible.<br \/>With all our love, Emma &amp; James<\/div>\n<h2>In Memoriam Wording for Programs<\/h2>\n<p>Acknowledging loved ones who have passed is one of the most meaningful additions to a wedding program. Place this section near the end &#8211; before the thank-you note or on the back page.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">In Loving Memory<\/p>\n<p>We remember with love those who are with us in spirit today:<br \/>Robert Hartley (1941-2019) &#8211; father of the bride<br \/>Mei Lin Chen (1945-2022) &#8211; grandmother of the groom<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Those we love don&#8217;t go away,<br \/>they walk beside us every day.&#8221;<\/div>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">Forever in our hearts<\/p>\n<p>This day is dedicated in loving memory to:<br \/>Robert James Hartley<br \/>Beloved father, grandfather, and friend<br \/>1941 &#8211; 2019<\/div>\n<div style=\"background:#fafafa;border-left:3px solid #ddd;padding:16px 20px;margin:20px 0;font-style:italic;\">In memory of those who should be here<\/p>\n<p>We light a candle for those who walk with us in spirit.<br \/>Your love and light made us who we are.<\/div>\n<h2>Order of Service vs. Wedding Program: Is There a Difference?<\/h2>\n<p>The terms are used interchangeably. &#8220;Order of service&#8221; is more common in the UK and Australia; &#8220;wedding program&#8221; is the standard American term. Both refer to the same printed guide that walks guests through the ceremony sequence. In the US, &#8220;program&#8221; is the word couples and printers use most.<\/p>\n<p>A related but distinct piece is the <a href=\"\/browse\/wedding-programs\/?utm_source=paperlust&#038;utm_medium=internal_link&#038;utm_campaign=cross_sell\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">wedding ceremony program<\/a> &#8211; a printed keepsake version that includes the full text of readings and vows. These are typically 8-page booklets rather than single bi-fold cards.<\/p>\n<table style=\"width:100%;border-collapse:collapse;font-size:17px;margin:28px 0;\">\n<thead>\n<tr>\n<th style=\"background:#1a1a1a;color:#fff;padding:11px 16px;text-align:left;\">Format<\/th>\n<th style=\"background:#1a1a1a;color:#fff;padding:11px 16px;text-align:left;\">Size<\/th>\n<th style=\"background:#1a1a1a;color:#fff;padding:11px 16px;text-align:left;\">Best for<\/th>\n<th style=\"background:#1a1a1a;color:#fff;padding:11px 16px;text-align:left;\">Sections<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n<tbody>\n<tr style=\"background:#f9f9f9;\">\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Single card<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">5&#215;7 or A5<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Minimalist, civil ceremonies<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">4-6 items<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"background:#fff;\">\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Bi-fold card<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">4-panel when open<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Non-denom, Protestant<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">6-10 items<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"background:#f9f9f9;\">\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Tri-fold<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">6-panel when open<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">Longer ceremonies, many readings<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;border-bottom:1px solid #eee;\">8-14 items<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"background:#fff;\">\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;\">Booklet (stapled)<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;\">8+ pages, A5<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;\">Catholic, Jewish, full keepsake<\/td>\n<td style=\"padding:11px 16px;\">10-20+ items<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>Pair your programs with a matching <a href=\"\/browse\/wedding-signs\/?utm_source=paperlust&#038;utm_medium=internal_link&#038;utm_campaign=cross_sell\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">wedding welcome sign<\/a> at the ceremony entrance for a cohesive day-of stationery suite. Using the same design family across both pieces ties the visual experience together seamlessly.<\/p>\n<p>For the invitation suite that started it all, browse <a href=\"\/browse\/wedding-invitations\/?utm_source=paperlust&#038;utm_medium=internal_link&#038;utm_campaign=cross_sell\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">wedding invitations<\/a> and coordinate your programs to match.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background:#f8f6f3;border-left:4px solid #c9a96e;padding:20px 24px;margin:40px 0;border-radius:2px;\">\n  <strong style=\"display:block;margin-bottom:8px;\">About this guide<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin:0;font-size:17px;\">Developed by the Paperlust content team with reference to ceremony traditions across Christian, Jewish, and civil wedding formats. Paperlust has been designing and printing wedding stationery &#8211; including ceremony programs &#8211; since 2014. All wording examples are original and may be adapted freely for your ceremony.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Frequently Asked Questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What is included in an order of service for a wedding?<\/h3>\n<p>A wedding order of service typically includes: the couple&#8217;s names and wedding date, a list of ceremony sections in sequence (processional through recessional), names of the wedding party, readers, and officiant, and optionally a thank-you note and in memoriam acknowledgment. Religious ceremonies may also include hymn lyrics, prayer texts, or scripture passages guests are expected to follow.<\/p>\n<h3>How do you word a simple wedding program?<\/h3>\n<p>For a simple program, list the ceremony elements as single-line labels in order: Processional, Welcome, Vows, Rings, Pronouncement, Recessional. Add the couple&#8217;s names and date at the top. That&#8217;s all that&#8217;s required. A half-page or single card format works well for simple programs.<\/p>\n<h3>Do you need to include the full text of readings?<\/h3>\n<p>Only if you want guests to read along or if the ceremony is conducted partly in another language. For most modern non-religious ceremonies, listing the reading title and reader&#8217;s name is sufficient. For Catholic or Jewish ceremonies, including Hebrew text or liturgical responses is customary.<\/p>\n<h3>How long should a wedding program be?<\/h3>\n<p>Match format to ceremony length. A 20-minute civil ceremony suits a single card. A 45-minute non-denominational ceremony suits a bi-fold. A 90-minute Catholic Mass with a full liturgy suits an 8-page booklet. When in doubt, shorter is more readable.<\/p>\n<h3>Is &#8220;order of service&#8221; or &#8220;wedding program&#8221; more common in the US?<\/h3>\n<p>In the US, &#8220;wedding program&#8221; is the standard term. &#8220;Order of service&#8221; is more common in the UK and Australia. Both refer to the same printed guide distributed to guests at the ceremony entrance.<\/p>\n<h3>When should I order wedding programs?<\/h3>\n<p>Order at least 4-6 weeks before your wedding date. You&#8217;ll need to finalize ceremony details &#8211; readings, readers, music selections &#8211; before placing your order. Paperlust delivers a design proof within 1-2 business days, with two rounds of revisions included at no extra charge.<\/p>\n<h3>Can I include song lyrics in a wedding program?<\/h3>\n<p>Yes. If guests are expected to join in a hymn or song, include the lyrics in full. For instrumental music that guests are only listening to, listing the title and artist is sufficient. Many copyright-free hymns and traditional songs can be reproduced without permission concerns.<\/p>\n<h3>What does &#8220;in memoriam&#8221; mean on a wedding program?<\/h3>\n<p>An in memoriam section acknowledges loved ones who have passed and cannot be at the wedding. 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