{"id":12210,"date":"2026-04-16T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-04-15T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/blog\/?p=12210"},"modified":"2026-04-17T11:07:27","modified_gmt":"2026-04-17T01:07:27","slug":"rehearsal-dinner-invitations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/blog\/rehearsal-dinner-invitations\/","title":{"rendered":"Rehearsal Dinner Invitations: Wording, Etiquette, and When to Send"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>\n#post-12210 .entry-content p,\n#post-12210 .entry-content li { font-size: 20px; line-height: 1.7; margin-bottom: 20px; }\n#post-12210 .entry-content h2 { text-transform: none !important; font-size: 34px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.3; margin-top: 56px; margin-bottom: 16px; }\n#post-12210 .entry-content h3 { text-transform: none !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.3; font-weight: 600; margin-top: 32px; }\n#post-12210 .entry-content table { width: 100%; border-collapse: collapse; font-size: 18px; margin: 28px 0; }\n#post-12210 .entry-content th { background: #f8f6f3; padding: 12px 16px; text-align: left; border-bottom: 2px solid #ddd; }\n#post-12210 .entry-content td { padding: 10px 16px; border-bottom: 1px solid #eee; }\n<\/style>\n<p>The rehearsal dinner is the event where your closest people &#8212; the ones who&#8217;ve been with you through every planning decision, every vendor call, and every moment of pre-wedding stress &#8212; finally come together before the big day. It&#8217;s intimate, it&#8217;s celebratory, and it sets the emotional tone for everything that follows. Getting the invitations right means your guests arrive knowing exactly what to expect and feeling genuinely welcomed.<\/p>\n\n\n<div style=\"background:#fdfaf4;border:1px solid #e8d9b8;border-radius:6px;padding:24px 28px;margin:36px 0;display:flex;flex-wrap:wrap;align-items:center;justify-content:space-between;gap:16px;\">\n  <div style=\"flex:1;min-width:260px;\">\n    <p style=\"margin:0 0 6px;font-weight:700;font-size:18px;color:#3a2e1f;\">Shop rehearsal dinner invitations at Paperlust<\/p>\n    <p style=\"margin:0;font-size:15px;color:#5a4a38;\">Designer rehearsal dinner invitations that match your wedding suite \u2014 digital proofs in 1\u20132 days.<\/p>\n  <\/div>\n  <a href=\"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/browse\/rehearsal-dinner-invitations\/\" style=\"background:#c9a96e;color:#fff;padding:12px 24px;border-radius:4px;text-decoration:none;font-weight:600;font-size:15px;white-space:nowrap;\">Browse designs \u2192<\/a>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<div style=\"background:#f8f6f3;border-left:3px solid #c9a96e;padding:20px 28px;margin:32px 0;border-radius:4px;\">\n<strong>Rehearsal Dinner Invitation Cheat Sheet<\/strong>\n<ul style=\"margin:12px 0 0 0;\">\n<li><strong>Who&#8217;s invited:<\/strong> Wedding party + partners, immediate family, officiant, out-of-town guests (optional)<\/li>\n<li><strong>When to send:<\/strong> 3-4 weeks before the wedding (6-8 weeks for destination)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Who traditionally hosts:<\/strong> Groom&#8217;s family traditionally; today, whoever wants to<\/li>\n<li><strong>Formality:<\/strong> Match to your wedding style, usually one notch more casual<\/li>\n<li><strong>What to include:<\/strong> Date, time, venue, address, dress code (if relevant), RSVP instructions<\/li>\n<li><strong>Design:<\/strong> Can coordinate with wedding suite or stand alone &#8212; either is fine<\/li>\n<li><strong>Digital:<\/strong> Acceptable for casual events; print preferred for formal<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n\n[IMAGE: Elegant rehearsal dinner invitation alongside a full wedding invitation suite, showing coordinated design elements]\n\n<h2>Who Gets Invited to the Rehearsal Dinner<\/h2>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"720\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/rehearsal-dinner-invitation-suite-flatlay.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding stationery suite flatlay with invitation and light blue envelope\" class=\"wp-image-12335\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/rehearsal-dinner-invitation-suite-flatlay.jpg 720w, https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/rehearsal-dinner-invitation-suite-flatlay-427x640.jpg 427w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n<p>The rehearsal dinner guest list is smaller and more intimate than the wedding itself. The core group includes everyone who will be at the rehearsal:<\/p>\n\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Wedding party:<\/strong> All bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls, ring bearers, and junior bridesmaids<\/li>\n<li><strong>Wedding party partners:<\/strong> Spouses and significant others of all wedding party members<\/li>\n<li><strong>Immediate family:<\/strong> Parents of both couples, siblings (even if not in the wedding party)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Officiant and their spouse or partner<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Readers or other ceremony participants<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n<p>The optional extension: out-of-town guests. Since they&#8217;ve traveled specifically for the wedding and don&#8217;t have local plans the night before, many couples invite all guests who&#8217;ve traveled from out of town. This is a generous gesture that&#8217;s become increasingly standard.<\/p>\n\n<p>What it doesn&#8217;t include: general local guests, extended family not in the wedding party, or work colleagues who weren&#8217;t given a special role. The rehearsal dinner is intentionally intimate. Keeping it smaller creates a more relaxed atmosphere before the formality of the wedding day.<\/p>\n\n<h2>Who Hosts the Rehearsal Dinner<\/h2>\n\n<p>Traditionally, the groom&#8217;s family hosted the rehearsal dinner. The logic was simple: the bride&#8217;s family hosted the wedding, so the groom&#8217;s family contributed by hosting the pre-wedding dinner.<\/p>\n\n<p>Today, this convention is loosening significantly. Any of the following is perfectly acceptable:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Groom&#8217;s family hosts (traditional)<\/li>\n<li>Both sets of parents co-host<\/li>\n<li>The couple hosts themselves<\/li>\n<li>A combination of parents and couple split the hosting duties<\/li>\n<li>A close family member or friend hosts as a gift to the couple<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n<p>Whoever hosts, their names appear at the top of the invitation. If the couple is hosting, the invitation can open with their names or with &#8220;You are invited to&#8230;&#8221; without a formal host line.<\/p>\n\n<h2>Timing: When to Send Rehearsal Dinner Invitations<\/h2>\n\n<p>Send rehearsal dinner invitations 3-4 weeks before the wedding. This window works because:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Guests have already received their wedding invitation and confirmed attendance<\/li>\n<li>It&#8217;s close enough to the event that logistics are settled<\/li>\n<li>3-4 weeks is enough lead time for any necessary travel adjustments<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n<p>For destination weddings, send 6-8 weeks before the event. Guests traveling internationally may need to adjust arrival dates based on rehearsal dinner timing.<\/p>\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re including out-of-town guests, check your venue&#8217;s capacity before expanding the list. A restaurant that comfortably seats 30 for the wedding party core group may not accommodate 60 if every out-of-town guest is included.<\/p>\n\n[IMAGE: Casual rehearsal dinner invitation with watercolor design, styled on a rustic wooden table]\n\n<h2>Rehearsal Dinner Invitation Wording Templates<\/h2>\n\n<p>Here are five wording examples covering the main scenarios:<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Template 1: Traditional Formal (Hosted by Groom&#8217;s Parents)<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border-left:3px solid #c9a96e;padding-left:16px;margin:16px 0;font-style:italic;\">\nMr. and Mrs. Robert Harrison<br>\nrequest the pleasure of your company<br>\nat a rehearsal dinner honoring<br>\n<br>\nEmily Carter and James Harrison<br>\n<br>\nFriday, the fourteenth of June<br>\nat half past seven in the evening<br>\n<br>\nThe Garden Room at Holloway House<br>\n1422 Maple Avenue, Austin, Texas<br>\n<br>\nKindly reply by June 1st\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><strong>Template 2: Modern Casual (Couple Hosting)<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border-left:3px solid #c9a96e;padding-left:16px;margin:16px 0;font-style:italic;\">\nEmily + James<br>\nare throwing a dinner before they say &#8220;I do&#8221;<br>\n<br>\nJoin us for food, drinks, and our favorite people<br>\n<br>\nFriday, June 14th at 7:00 PM<br>\nRosario&#8217;s Restaurant<br>\n210 South Congress, Austin TX<br>\n<br>\nRSVP by June 1st at [website or email]\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><strong>Template 3: Co-Hosted by Both Families<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border-left:3px solid #c9a96e;padding-left:16px;margin:16px 0;font-style:italic;\">\nThe Carter and Harrison Families<br>\ninvite you to celebrate<br>\n<br>\nEmily and James<br>\n<br>\nRehearsal Dinner<br>\nFriday, June 14th | 7:00 PM<br>\n<br>\nOak &#038; Ember<br>\n530 West 6th Street, Austin, Texas<br>\n<br>\nPlease RSVP by June 1st\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><strong>Template 4: Destination Rehearsal Dinner<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border-left:3px solid #c9a96e;padding-left:16px;margin:16px 0;font-style:italic;\">\nPlease join us for a welcome dinner<br>\ncelebrating the upcoming marriage of<br>\n<br>\nSophie Laurent and Marco Reyes<br>\n<br>\nThursday, October 9th at 7:30 PM<br>\n<br>\nVilla Farnese Terrace<br>\nVia della Lungara 10, Rome, Italy<br>\n<br>\nSmart casual attire<br>\nRSVP requested by September 15th\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><strong>Template 5: Casual Backyard or Home Dinner<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border-left:3px solid #c9a96e;padding-left:16px;margin:16px 0;font-style:italic;\">\nCome eat with us the night before the wedding!<br>\n<br>\n[Name] and [Name] are getting married tomorrow,<br>\nbut tonight we&#8217;re keeping it casual<br>\n<br>\nFriday, June 14th | 6:30 PM<br>\n[Address]<br>\n<br>\nBackyard casual &#8212; bring your appetite<br>\nRSVP to [contact] by June 5th\n<\/blockquote>\n\n[IMAGE: Formal rehearsal dinner invitation with gold foil details, alongside a coordinating wedding invitation]\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"772\" src=\"https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/rehearsal-dinner-gold-foil-invitation.jpg\" alt=\"Gold foil calligraphy wedding invitation with peony illustration\" class=\"wp-image-12336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/rehearsal-dinner-gold-foil-invitation.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/rehearsal-dinner-gold-foil-invitation-640x457.jpg 640w, https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/rehearsal-dinner-gold-foil-invitation-768x549.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/figure>\n<h2>What Information to Include<\/h2>\n\n<p>Every rehearsal dinner invitation should include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Host names (or couple&#8217;s names if self-hosting)<\/li>\n<li>The event name (&#8220;Rehearsal Dinner&#8221; or &#8220;Welcome Dinner&#8221; for destination events)<\/li>\n<li>The couple&#8217;s names (if not the hosts)<\/li>\n<li>Date and time<\/li>\n<li>Venue name and full address<\/li>\n<li>RSVP instructions and deadline<\/li>\n<li>Dress code if not obvious (especially if formal)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n<p>Optional but useful:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Parking information for venues with limited parking<\/li>\n<li>Menu type (if dietary restrictions need advance notice)<\/li>\n<li>Note about toasts or speeches if guests should plan to say something<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n<h2>Design Ideas and Matching Your Wedding Suite<\/h2>\n\n<p>Rehearsal dinner invitations can coordinate with your wedding suite or stand independently &#8212; both approaches work. The choice depends on how unified you want your stationery aesthetic to be.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Coordinated approach:<\/strong> Use the same design family as your wedding invitation with slightly different copy. Same fonts, same color palette, but perhaps a simpler design and lighter paper weight. This creates a cohesive brand across your wedding weekend.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Standalone approach:<\/strong> Choose a design that reflects the vibe of the rehearsal dinner venue &#8212; something more relaxed, playful, or intimate than your formal wedding suite. A vineyard dinner doesn&#8217;t need the same gravitas as a black-tie ballroom wedding.<\/p>\n\n<p>For design and paper inspiration, see our full <a href=\"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/browse\/wedding-invitations\/\">wedding stationery collection<\/a>. Many designs work across multiple event types. Our <a href=\"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/blog\/wedding-stationery-checklist-decide-include\/\">wedding stationery checklist<\/a> helps you plan the full suite of pieces you&#8217;ll need across your wedding weekend.<\/p>\n\n<h2>Digital Options for Rehearsal Dinners<\/h2>\n\n<p>Digital invitations are more appropriate for rehearsal dinners than for the wedding itself. Because the event is smaller, more intimate, and among people you&#8217;re already in direct contact with, a digital format feels less impersonal than it would for the full wedding.<\/p>\n\n<p>Digital works particularly well when:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The rehearsal dinner is casual (backyard, restaurant, rooftop)<\/li>\n<li>Most guests are already in a group chat or messaging thread<\/li>\n<li>You&#8217;re adding out-of-town guests at the last minute and don&#8217;t have time for physical mailing<\/li>\n<li>Budget is a consideration and the rehearsal dinner is the natural place to cut printing costs<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n<p>Digital invitations don&#8217;t work as well when the rehearsal dinner is formal, when the couple&#8217;s family is expecting the full stationery experience, or when guests are older and may not check email regularly.<\/p>\n\n<p>A practical middle path: send physical invitations to the core group (wedding party, immediate family, officiant), and use digital for the extended out-of-town guest additions.<\/p>\n\n<p>For the full wording library covering your wedding invitation suite, see our <a href=\"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/blog\/wedding-invitation-wording\/\">wedding invitation wording guide<\/a> with 80+ examples. When you&#8217;re ready to coordinate your full weekend stationery, browse our <a href=\"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/browse\/save-the-date\/\">save the date designs<\/a> and our <a href=\"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/browse\/wedding-invitations\/\">complete invitation collection<\/a> to find the right style for your wedding weekend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"720\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/rehearsal-dinner-gatefold-invitation-wax-seal.jpg\" alt=\"Gatefold wedding invitation with wax seal and dried flowers\" class=\"wp-image-12337\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/rehearsal-dinner-gatefold-invitation-wax-seal.jpg 720w, https:\/\/blogcdn.paperlust.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/rehearsal-dinner-gatefold-invitation-wax-seal-427x640.jpg 427w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/figure>\n<h2>Rehearsal Dinner Invitation Timeline in Detail<\/h2>\n\n<p>Getting the timing right takes coordination across several steps. Here is a complete timeline working backward from your wedding date:<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>4-6 months before the wedding:<\/strong> Finalize your rehearsal dinner guest list and confirm the venue. Once you have a confirmed venue, you have the address and date you need for the invitation. Lock this down before starting the design process.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>3-4 months before the wedding:<\/strong> Start your invitation design. If you are coordinating with your wedding suite, work with the same design collection. If standalone, this is the time to explore options and place any custom orders. Allow extra lead time if you want specialty printing like letterpress or foil.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>2-3 months before the wedding:<\/strong> Finalize and approve your invitation design. Order invitations to allow 7-10 business days production time plus shipping. This window also gives you time to address and assemble without rushing.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>6-8 weeks before the wedding (destination weddings):<\/strong> Mail rehearsal dinner invitations to any international or out-of-town guests first. International mail takes 10-21 days, so the earlier the better. Check that any guests traveling from overseas have your rehearsal dinner date before they book their arrival flights.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>3-4 weeks before the wedding (standard domestic timing):<\/strong> Mail rehearsal dinner invitations to all remaining guests. By this point, everyone has already received and responded to the wedding invitation, so the rehearsal dinner details are a natural follow-up for confirmed attendees.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>RSVP deadline:<\/strong> Set the reply-by date 1-2 weeks before the rehearsal dinner to give the venue enough time to confirm headcount. For catered events with a fixed per-person cost, most venues require a final headcount 5-7 business days in advance.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>3-5 days before the rehearsal dinner:<\/strong> Follow up with any non-responders by text or phone. A quick personal message is entirely appropriate for an event this intimate &#8212; there is no need for a formal reminder card at this scale.<\/p>\n\n<p>If you have not yet sent save the dates and wedding invitations, make sure those go out first. Browse <a href=\"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/browse\/save-the-date\/\">save the date designs<\/a> if you are still in that stage of planning.<\/p>\n\n<h2>More Wording Examples: Formal vs. Informal<\/h2>\n\n<p>Here are additional wording templates to cover more specific scenarios and tones:<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Template 6: Formal with Dress Code<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border-left:3px solid #c9a96e;padding-left:16px;margin:16px 0;font-style:italic;\">\nMr. and Mrs. David Chen<br>\ncordially invite you to join them<br>\nfor a rehearsal dinner in honor of<br>\n<br>\nMei Chen and William Hargrove<br>\n<br>\nSaturday, the twentieth of September<br>\nat seven o&#8217;clock in the evening<br>\n<br>\nThe Rooftop at Twenty-Two<br>\n22 East Wacker Drive, Chicago, Illinois<br>\n<br>\nCocktail attire requested<br>\nKindly reply by September 6th\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><strong>Template 7: Warm and Intimate (Small Close Group)<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border-left:3px solid #c9a96e;padding-left:16px;margin:16px 0;font-style:italic;\">\nWe would love to have you at our table<br>\nthe evening before the wedding<br>\n<br>\nDinner with the ones who matter most<br>\n<br>\nFriday, August 8th | 6:30 PM<br>\nCarmine&#8217;s on 44th<br>\n200 West 44th Street, New York, NY<br>\n<br>\nRSVP to Sarah by July 25th\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><strong>Template 8: Welcome Dinner (Destination or Multi-Day Event)<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border-left:3px solid #c9a96e;padding-left:16px;margin:16px 0;font-style:italic;\">\nYou made the trip &#8212; and we couldn&#8217;t be more grateful<br>\n<br>\nPlease join us for a welcome dinner<br>\nkicking off a wonderful weekend<br>\n<br>\n[Names]<br>\n<br>\nThursday, May 22nd | 7:00 PM<br>\nThe Terrace at Sunstone Winery<br>\n125 Refugio Road, Santa Ynez, California<br>\n<br>\nCasual chic | RSVP by May 10th\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><strong>Template 9: Just the Wedding Party<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border-left:3px solid #c9a96e;padding-left:16px;margin:16px 0;font-style:italic;\">\nTo our favorite people:<br>\n<br>\nAfter the rehearsal, let&#8217;s eat.<br>\n<br>\n[Names] are hosting dinner<br>\nfor the ones making it all happen<br>\n<br>\nFriday, October 3rd | 7:30 PM<br>\n[Restaurant name and address]<br>\n<br>\nNo dress code. Just show up hungry.<br>\nText [Name] to confirm: [number]\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><strong>Template 10: Religious or Traditional Tone<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border-left:3px solid #c9a96e;padding-left:16px;margin:16px 0;font-style:italic;\">\nTogether with their families<br>\n[Name] and [Name]<br>\ninvite you to gather for dinner<br>\non the eve of their wedding<br>\n<br>\nFriday, the thirteenth of June<br>\nat half past six in the evening<br>\n<br>\n[Venue name]<br>\n[Address]<br>\n<br>\nPlease kindly reply by June 1st\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<h2>Matching Your Rehearsal Dinner Invite to Your Wedding Suite<\/h2>\n\n<p>Cohesion across your weekend stationery is a design goal many couples overlook until it&#8217;s too late to coordinate. Here is how to achieve it without making every piece look identical.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Use the same design collection:<\/strong> Many stationery collections include coordinating pieces across multiple formats. If your wedding invitation uses a particular floral motif or botanical border, the rehearsal dinner invitation can use the same motif at a smaller scale or in a different color variation. This signals the same event family without looking like a duplicate.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Keep the typography consistent:<\/strong> If your wedding invitation uses a specific combination of script and serif fonts, carrying that pairing into your rehearsal dinner invitation creates visual continuity even if the paper stock or format differs. Font consistency is the fastest way to tie two separate pieces together.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Adjust the formality, not the style:<\/strong> The rehearsal dinner invitation can be one notch more casual in tone and format while maintaining the same aesthetic. A letterpress wedding invitation paired with a flat-printed rehearsal dinner invitation in the same color palette is a common and elegant combination.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Paper stock can differ:<\/strong> Your wedding invitation might use thick cotton paper. The rehearsal dinner invitation can be on a lighter weight paper. The design cohesion matters more than matching paper weights exactly &#8212; and a lighter stock can feel appropriately less formal for a pre-wedding dinner.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Color palette alignment:<\/strong> If your wedding colors are sage green and ivory, carrying sage green into the rehearsal dinner invitation design is the simplest way to tie the pieces together visually. Even a coordinating envelope liner in your accent color creates the visual connection without requiring a matching design.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>When a standalone design works better:<\/strong> If your rehearsal dinner venue has a very different vibe than your wedding &#8212; say, a lakeside barbecue before a black-tie hotel ballroom wedding &#8212; leaning into the casual atmosphere with a completely different invitation style can enhance the contrast and make each event feel distinct. Not everything has to match. Sometimes the contrast is the point.<\/p>\n\n<p>Browse our full <a href=\"https:\/\/paperlust.co\/browse\/wedding-invitations\/\">wedding invitation collection<\/a> to find coordinating designs across your complete weekend stationery suite.<\/p>\n\n\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\">\n{\n  \"@context\": \"https:\/\/schema.org\",\n  \"@type\": \"FAQPage\",\n  \"mainEntity\": [\n    {\n      \"@type\": \"Question\",\n      \"name\": \"Who do you invite to a rehearsal dinner?\",\n      \"acceptedAnswer\": {\n        \"@type\": \"Answer\",\n        \"text\": \"The core rehearsal dinner guest list includes: the full wedding party and their partners, immediate family members of both couples, the officiant and their partner, and any other ceremony participants. 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